my cat and I started as roommates but now I’m pretty sure he’s my boyfriend.

I looooove that movie. What a wild ride.

I thought so too? People and therapists always advise “try new things!” so I tried something that most people here do which are activity based dates. Most people here like want you do something with them instead of just going out to eat and actually getting to know each other.

But yeah it’s not for me as I already imagined. To me, it also seems like something you’d do on at least like second date.

That makes total sense.

Thanks for the link! I was also looking it up. It sounds really cool and I love that you can achieve the effect in just a few months.

If you have desktop you can insert images on lemmy - its been working for me so far.

Like i remember stumbling across a community on reddit that was all about sewing felt vaginas/butts into stuffed animals so people could take their relationship with their favorite plushie to the next level. The community was shockingly active and full of discussion.

lol I am so not surprised something like that was active but I guess I have always been on the darkest corners of the internet.

bonsai cannabis?? Please tell me more about that.

I mean, I helped myself and that didn’t cost me a dime and I certainly never got much help from any therapists I actually paid.

Like I said, people should just be more open to trying things.

I keep seeing people say they want more “niche” content when it comes to porn on here but are people just looking for kinks or what?

I saw all kinds of nasty kink stuff when I was browsing pornlemmy.

It stops being funny after the 500th time. A lot of them are lolsorandumb zoomer humor. So its completely incoherrent or contains some sort of inside joke.

I’ve hated them since it got popular on 4chan and 9gag back in the day. People were just spouting memes and I could tell they lacked intelligence because of it.

I love humor. I love comedies and stand up comedy.

Memes aren’t really humor. They’re rhetoric that gets repetitive.

I really miss having a local sub but both of the portland subs turned into absolute cess pools the past year, there’s an ask one too that’s also filled with “i need to be right about this” type assholes.

Same, I tried to go on a date to a barcade and the guy was like “are we vibing” and I was just like… uhh we’ve just played games this entire time? I feel like I still don’t know you.

I use to be afraid of large groups until I realized its easier to get away from someone at a party than it is in a small gathering or one on one situation.

omg I just saw Howie Mandell doing the ads for NOCD! that shit blew my mind, I’m so glad he can finally get the word out cause I fucking hate being plagued like this and not being taken seriously about it.

my anxiety didn’t go away entirely but I did work on it and it did get better.

Surely people can try to get better. Nothing wrong with that…

I get what you’re saying but you know it doesn’t hurt to try things right? I tried lots of different things to help with my anxiety before I got somewhere with it.

Fear, uncertainty, and doubt about reddit though? Weird. I thought we all just didn’t like the site?

it was always mind boggling to be on a sub reddit, like say for King of the Hill and someone posts an innocent quote from the show or something and they just randomly have two downvotes for some reason.

you forgot “Men have it so much harder than women and here’s an entire fucking essay on why you bitches!!”

I mean… I like seeing that it’s clearly going way down hill and fast.

I always just try to find stuff to respond to instead of trying to think up hot takes.