A contrarian isn’t one who always objects - that’s a confirmist of a different sort. A contrarian reasons independently, from the ground up, and resists pressure to conform.

  • Naval Ravikant
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  • It depends on who you’re around. If it’s toxic, angry people - like online - it sucks, because that negativity seeps in and poisons my own mood too. But when you’re around positive people, you can really feel those good vibes as well.

    The thing is, I don’t necessarily feel what other people feel - I feel what I think they feel. So if I misread someone, I can end up feeling bad for no reason at all.

    Interestingly, my empathy even extends to inanimate objects. A childhood example: if there were four potatoes left in the kettle and I only wanted three, I’d still take all four because I didn’t want the last one to be left alone.


  • Opinionhaver@feddit.uktoTechnology@lemmy.worldaight... i'm out..
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    5 hours ago

    I think this is great. One of the main reasons I’ve been paying for the subscription is the limited memory of the free version. Now, the more I use it, the more it remembers about me and references things I’ve mentioned in past conversations. Sure, there are potential privacy concerns, but the same goes for commenting on Lemmy - I don’t tell ChatGPT anything I wouldn’t be comfortable sharing here.




  • To me, this feels like drawing a red circle around a defect that almost no one would notice otherwise. Whether it helps someone with their trauma or not is irrelevant here, as I’m speaking purely about appearance.

    I don’t mind small tattoos. I’m not a fan of them, and I’d prefer none at all, but one or two small ones aren’t a dealbreaker for me. Ironically, the only type of tattoo I actually find kind of attractive is a tramp stamp - which even many tattoo enthusiasts tend to dislike.

    If I were to psychoanalyze myself a bit here, I suspect it might have something to do with the fact that I have quite a few moles on my body, which I absolutely hate. So maybe there’s some resentment toward people who have naturally clear, “clean” skin - and then choose to cover it with tattoos.









  • For the past 10 years I’ve already lived as if I’m going to lose my job tomorrow. I’m probably better prepaired than the vast majority of people though I still don’t feel that way so I just keep saving and investing more while trying to live as cheap as possible. Ironically though my work situation has never been as busy as it’s now. My job is recession-proof(ish) and I can’t be fired so atleast there’s that.




  • My thinking is that LLMs are human-like enough that mistreating them can be a strong indicator of someone’s character. If you’re comfortable being cruel to something that closely resembles a person, it suggests you might treat actual people poorly too. That’s why I think the premise of the TV series Westworld wouldn’t really work in real life - you’d have to be a literal psychopath to mistreat those human-like robots, even if you know (or are pretty sure) they’re not conscious.

    I don’t think people need to go out of their way to be overly polite to an LLM - we can be pretty confident it doesn’t actually care - but if I saw someone’s chat history and it was nothing but them being mean or abusive, that would be a massive red flag for me personally.

    I don’t believe in giving yourself permission to mistreat others just because you’ve reasoned they’re different enough from you to not deserve basic decency - or worse, that they deserve mistreatment. Whatever excuse you use to “other” someone is still just that - an excuse. Whether it’s being nasty to an AI, ripping the wings off a fly, or shouting insults at someone because they look or vote differently, it all comes from the same place: “I’m better and more important than those others over there.” Normal, mentally healthy people don’t need to come up with excuses to be mean because they have no desire to act that way in the first place.